he did say he was an asshole. he already told you. you were the only one stupid enough to think that maybe he's not. you just happen to bet on the wrong people. again.
"How are u generally? Would be good to see u soon. Going to party with my gf tomorrow...but could meet in day?"
seriously. who sends a message like that??
how are you generally??! so i say something like i'm okay or not okay but no need to expound further coz you're not interested to really know anything after that?
and then you go and say you wanna see me, but then you have gf. but you don't stop there, you then propose to see me in the day because you're seeing your gf at night? did you even stop and think before sending that message out? i mean, fine, you did say you're an ass. but my golly, i underestimated your level of jerk-iness.
what is wrong with you?? really? aren't you like 36 yo?? and you say you wanna settle and all?